Every journey starts somewhere.
Where will yours begin?
Whether you've been carrying something for years or something recently shifted, you're in the right place. Below you'll find the areas I specialize in treating. Take a look and see where you recognize yourself. And if you're not sure which fits, that's okay too. Just reach out, and we'll figure it out together.
Not sure where to start? Don’t see what you’re struggling with listed here, and curious if Jess can help?
That's okay — just reach out and tell me a little about what's going on. We'll figure out the rest together.
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Sex and desire are surprisingly hard to talk about — with a partner, or even just with yourself. Whether you're an individual exploring your own sexuality and kinks, a couple navigating desire discrepancy or kink disclosure, or any relationship structure in between, this is a kink-affirming, judgment-free space where that conversation becomes possible. All relationship structures welcome. All of it normal here.
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You used to feel connected to your desire — or maybe you never quite did. Now sex feels distant, obligatory, or like something you dread rather than something you want. Whether desire has gone quiet, arousal feels out of reach, or intimacy has become a source of tension rather than connection, you don't have to keep pushing through alone. This is one of the most common and most treatable concerns in sex therapy.
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What happened to you, or what was done to you, doesn't just stay in the past. It shows up in your body, your relationships, and your ability to feel safe and present during intimacy. You may not even connect the dots between past experiences and what you're feeling now. Using Brainspotting alongside talk therapy, we work with your nervous system directly to help you actually heal and not just cope.
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Sexual behavior that feels compulsive, out of control, or at odds with your values. Whether you're struggling with pornography use, sexual acting out, or patterns you've tried to stop and can't, understanding what's driving the behavior is where real change begins. This is a space where you can be honest without fear of judgment or pathology.
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Some desires and attractions don't have easy language around them — and the world doesn't always make it safe to look for help. This is a judgment-free space for people navigating atypical attractions, stigmatized desires, or anything that has felt too complicated or too risky to bring into a therapist's office before now.
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